Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Never Goodbye, Just See You Later.


We've made it! Well, almost. Graduation isn't here yet, but it is definitely right around the corner. You don’t really know how far you've come, or how much you've grown, until you take a step back and look at your life for the past four years. On your eighth grade graduation day, did you see yourself doing that same thing four years later with a different cap and gown, and a new set of friends? On your first day of high school, did you imagine yourself walking down those halls for four years?  You probably didn't  yet here you are, about to walk them for the very last time. Every one of us has accomplished some great things, whether it’s a good grade, some type of award, or just managing to stay awake in class. Regardless of what we've done, we've all ended up in the same place: walking across a stage that holds one of our last high school memories.
Your last high school memory may be different than someone else’s. While one person will remember tripping across the stage for their diploma, someone else might remember that last hug from a good friend who leaves before the summer even starts. For me, I’ll probably remember both. After graduation, we all leave to do great things, whether it’s college, the military, or a job of any kind. No matter where we’re going, we’re all starting a new, scary adventure that will take us four years or more to get through, but, we all know we are perfectly capable. We've already completed one as it is.

I've learned a lot since my freshman year. I've mastered writing a Mr. O’Shea-approved SIFT essay; I've learned how to stay awake during a multi-slide PowerPoint with too many words on each and every slide; I've really learned how to fake my way through a titration lab, even though I really did try at first. Most importantly, I've learned how to push myself to do my best, while also helping others along the way. College will be opening many new doors for us, and for the first time, we’re on our own when deciding which ones to walk through and which ones to shut. We won’t have that guaranteed safety of our friends and school faculty to help us go in the right direction. We’ll have new friends and new faculty to depend on, but in the end, we all have to learn how to trust our own judgment.

It’s really important to remember that this may be the end of a four year journey, but it’s the beginning of something much greater. We've made our fair share of mistakes, and we’re definitely going to make more. We really are growing up, and as scary as it sounds, we’re all going to be just fine. We will be faced with many challenges beyond college, but as we grow, so does our experience. We’re ready for everything that is coming our way, and as time goes on, we will be better prepared for the things we haven’t seen yet.

Now, we all need a deep breath. We’re ready, whether we think so or not. “Your mountain is waiting. So…get on your way!”